Is A Man from The Past Haunting Your Dating Life? This Will Help
Have you ever been blindsided by a man?
You thought he was the Love of Your Life?
But he was unable/unwilling to offer you the love & relationship you wanted?
And you feel intense pain: sadness, grief, emptiness and anger?
I know how awful that feels as I have felt that way several times in my life.
I remember wanting revenge and retribution.
I had all these fantasies in my head about that.
I had many dialogues going on.
But all those vengeful thoughts weren’t serving me.
Not one bit.
It took several break-ups and some inner work before I learned this lesson
I’ll share a bit with you.
Even if you haven’t gone through a break-up or a ghosting recently, you may want to release a certain man who’s lingering in your energy.
In a way that serves you.
Here it is.
I invite you to relinquish this man with benevolent energy. And accept that he, just like you and I…and every one of us, is human and imperfect.
He couldn’t offer you what you desired. He couldn’t be the man you wanted him to be.
That doesn’t make him a terrible person.
What if you looked at him and the entire situation through a different filter?
Through a filter of love.
That may sound fluffy or impossible.
I can appreciate that.
As a once rageful woman, I get that.
And the more we live our ENTIRE lives through this filter, the more possible it is to Attract the Love of Our Life.
Our energy changes when we relinquish a man from our past.
Use that filter of love and…
ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS:
What if this man showed up in your life to teach you a lesson?
What have you learned from having had him in your life?
Do you have more clarity about what it is you’re seeking in love and relationships?
How will you be able to recognize healthy and mature relational dynamics going forward?
As you relinquish this man and move on, ask yourself “how will the Love of My Life show up differently?”
Let me know in the comments how this landed for you.
P.S. You may now put down the pitchfork.