8 Signs That He's Serious About Dating You

It’s actually easy to know if a man is serious about dating you…

SCENARIO

You’re talking to a man. Perhaps you matched online or you met him organically.

You’ve texted and maybe had some phone or video chats over the last few weeks

Things were flowing, he seemed interested in you. Somewhat.

But…

You may keep asking yourself these questions:

💭 Does he actually REALLY like me?

💭 Is he interested in a relationship with me?

💭 Why doesn’t he want to talk to me and see me more often?

💭 When is he going to move things forward?

Then you go into your Facebook relationship groups and make a post asking the members to help you decode his behaviour.

You ask your girlfriends for their opinion.

Or maybe you scour the Internet looking for answers on Youtube or dating coaches websites.

You spend hours dissecting his words looking for a sign of what his true intentions are for you.

And you may even be making excuses for him about why things haven’t progressed further.

 

But right now, you just want to know if he’s as into you as you are into him.

 

You may not want to believe that the answer is RIGHT there before your very eyes.

If he really is into you, you’ll see these 8 signs:

✓      He calls you and texts you regularly. Maybe not every single day but he’s communicating with you consistently

✓      His words and actions are aligned. If he says he’ll do something, he does it

✓      He makes efforts to please you and make you happy

✓      He asks to see you and spend quality time with you

✓      He’s curious about you. He asks you questions and listens to what you have to say

✓      You’re not wondering if he’s into you because it shows and you feel it

✓      Underneath the undeniable chemistry and butterflies, things feel comfortable and safe somehow

✓      You can be with him without worrying about doing or saying the “wrong” thing

If you’re experiencing inconsistent attention and interest, him not stepping up to move things forward, flaky behaviour and you feel bad or anxious most of the time, then this is NOT your man.

You may truly believe that your situation is “special and unique” and you keep seeking answers, insight and explanations.

JUST STOP 

Allow this to sink in even if you don’t like what this means.

And let it be your signal that it’s time to gracefully walk away.

You have limitless options when it comes to men.

And instead of crumbs, a whole loaf is available to you.

If you choose.