What Is Masculine vs Feminine Energy In Dating?
You’ve been hearing about masculine vs feminine energy all over the internet.
And once you learn about embodying your feminine in dating and relationships, you’ll know firsthand that it is one of the finest ingredients for an impassioned love life.
If you’re a savvy single woman who’s dating to find the love of your life, then you’ll want to read this blog post and a few others that I’ve written on this subject.
In this blog post, we’ll cover:
· What is masculine vs feminine energy?
· What are the traits and qualities of masculine vs feminine energy?
· Why polarity is key to attraction in dating and relationships
· Why being in your feminine essence is going to transform your life
Let’s first look at the balance of masculine vs feminine energy inside of yourself. And in your own life to bring about wholeness.
Your relationship to your masculine and feminine.
You’d benefit by considering about how masculine and feminine energies are expressed inside you.
And how you apply these energies.
Because when you do, you’ll recognize why you show up and communicate the way you do.
Then you can understand how to show up better, feel better and enhance your attraction and communication skills in dating and relationships.
Your entire life changes when your masculine and feminine energies are in harmony.
Let me be very clear.
Masculine and feminine energies are not gender, orientation and appearance-based.
So please don’t associate men equals masculine and women equals feminine; they’re energetic presences or forces that live in all of us.
There’s a CORE energy living within all of us.
HOWEVER, we ALL embody both energies. There are no exceptions to this.
The energy that we embody primarily plays a huge role in our romantic lives and in other areas of our lives.
What are qualities of masculine vs feminine energy?
Masculine vs Feminine Energy in Dating and Relationships
Let’s look at masculine vs feminine energy through the lens of romantic relationships.
Happy, healthy partnerships exist when there is polarity: it’s the quality of contrasting and complimentary energies between two people.
Polarity is about the DIFFERENCES we have with another person. And this creates a spark.
The more contrasting the masculine vs feminine energy is, the stronger and more electric the attraction will be. 🎼
Both energies need each other to be in balance to create harmony between two people.
Consider how magnets have two poles. One is negative, and the other is positive.
Now think of what happens when you put two north pole sides of magnets together.
The result? They repel one another!
If you and a man are both embodying masculine energy, the attraction will be greatly diminished.
Or attraction will be non-existent.
The same scenario occurs with two feminine energies.
There won’t be any attraction.
Now see what happens when you place a (+) positive and (-) negative magnet close to each other.
They snap together with uncontainable force.
Why do contrasting energies create attraction?
Now there ARE successful relationships when the female is more of the masculine energy partner and the man is more of the feminine energy partner. 🧡
However, I’m sure you’ll agree that most women find strong, solid men more attractive.
Another word to describe that would be ‘alpha’. Not a term that I like, but one that is understood.
And a lot of women say they want a nice guy but not a guy who’s ‘too nice’. What I mean is that they want a man who’s nice but has an ‘edge’.
This type of man stands up for himself and doesn’t allow himself to be mistreated.
He’s able to guide and lead others, he decides quickly, and his masculine energy is solid and stable.
THAT’s what’s very attractive to a lot of women.
And those types of men are looking for their complimentary feminine counterpart.
But this may not be appealing to YOU and that’s fine.
What if you’re a strong ‘alpha’ woman?
If you’re an ‘alpha’ type of woman who wants to take the lead and be the stronger energy in the relationship, then perhaps a man who’s more passive and compliant would be a better match for you.
Sometimes, ‘alpha’ women tell me that the only type of man who can handle them would be an equal ‘alpha’ male partner.
And I’m quick to point out that, sure, this type of man can be interested and attracted initially, but I’ve never seen these relationships last very long.
Because it often feels like a battle of wills and a solid, strong energy man isn’t looking for another battle.
He has that in his work life and when work is done, he’s looking for a softer place to land.
These relationships work because there is POLARITY and magnetic attraction. 👥
Most relationships involving a man and a woman thrive when the man is the primary masculine energy partner and the woman is the feminine energy partner. 💃
This is what most women and men desire to have in their relationships, even if they’re not aware of it.
Sometimes certain women will say that they associate being feminine with being ‘’weak’’, being a ‘’doormat’’ or less than.
But that is false and shows a profound lack of understanding about the inherent power of the feminine.
Both energies are powerful, yet very different.
If this is your reaction, fear not, I will show you that embodying your feminine is far from weak. It’s powerful!
If you want to activate your feminine, what will help this be possible is when you have solid, stable masculine energy.
This is the foundation that supports your ability to be in your surrendered feminine.
If your masculine energy feels ‘unstable’ or disempowered, then allowing and trusting yourself to be in your feminine essence will be challenging.
Now that you know the feminine is strong and the path of least resistance, you’re one step closer to easing into your feminine power.
Here’s what we covered in masculine vs feminine energy:
· Aren’t gender based but energetic presences in all of us
· Most women prefer a ‘masculine’ man and most men prefer a ‘feminine’ woman.
· It’s the complimentary and contrasting energies between two people that sets the stage for polarity and attraction that lasts
If you crave to learn more about this, check out these posts:
What Is Feminine Energy? The 7 Best Ways Be More Feminine
The 7 Best Ways To Date With Feminine Energy