5 Secrets To Buying The Perfect Christmas Gift For Your Boyfriend
Gift-giving is an art form. The best gifts are thoughtfully chosen. Sometimes coming up with the best gift for your boyfriend or husband requires some research and care. The right gift(s) makes him think YOU get him and respect him. He will be more attracted to you and he’ll be drawn closer to you. Doing so will strengthen the connection you already have.
Do you want to get your boyfriend or husband the right gift? So that he’ll feel happy, respected and loved?
You don’t want to buy the boring or standard thing.
Gift-giving is an ART form.
The best gifts are thoughtfully chosen.
Sometimes coming up with the best gift for your boyfriend or husband requires some research and care.
The right gift(s) makes him think YOU get him and respect him. He will be more attracted to you and he’ll be drawn closer to you.
Doing so will deepen and strengthen the connection you already have.
Even if his love language isn’t receiving gifts.
A gift that creates connection is much better than the unwanted gift that goes unused and unappreciated, right?
Keep reading and you’ll discover
· the 5 secrets of choosing the right gift
. how to find the best gifts for him.
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#1 Secret Make It All About Him
The first thing you want to consider when you’re going to buy a gift is that you want to make it all about him.
What I mean is you want to get him a gift HE wants, or he needs.
Not something YOU would like him to have or that you think he should have.
Something he’s expressed an interest in.
You put the thought into it and do the research.
And then you find that amazing gift or gifts your man is going to feel seen, understood, respected and loved.
He’s going to think “Wow, this woman GETS me.”
Yes, men DO want to feel that way, so it’s totally worth it to get the man in your life the right gift.
So here are some ideas for you.
A gift of something he’s mentioned in the past, but he couldn’t find it.
Maybe the gift was unavailable, or it was sold out.
And you can track that gift down.
It’ll make an amazing surprise for him.
For example; this guy was not my boyfriend, but he was a former housemate.
I remember one time, one right before Christmas. He had mentioned a few years back he wanted a DVD of Beetlejuice and he couldn’t find it anywhere.
For some reason, it was unfindable.
I ended up digging around, found it and he got it as a gift for me and he was so happy!
He felt so like I got him oh my god he was REALLY happy.
#2 Use Google and Another Browser
🎀Use Google or your favourite browser and type:
· gifts for musicians
· gifts for joggers
· gifts for hockey players
· gifts for personal growth
· gifts for nature lovers
· gifts for introverts
· gifts for conspiracy theorists
You get the idea.
You’re going to find an abundance of ideas that you wouldn’t have come up with on your own.
I also highly suggest also using another browser in addition to Google.
Because that way you’ll find more unique options that mainstream browsers won’t show you.
#3 Buy Him An Experience
You know sometimes people just buy things physical things but they actually don’t go out?
An experience, an event, and an outing could be the perfect gift.
For example, one year I got my husband a Christmas gift. One ticket for a sporting event hockey game.
I remembered that in the past he had mentioned, “If ever go to a game, I’d like to go alone. I just want to focus on the game and not talk to anyone.”
He was very thrilled to receive a single ticket as a Christmas gift.
And he was very happy to go to the game alone and experience it live.
So, if your guy would appreciate going to an event or a concert, but he just never got around to getting a ticket.
He’s going to love it if you get him a ticket or two. And he’ll take whoever he likes.
#4 The Gifts of Comfort, Ease and Practicality
Consider buy your partner something comfortable or something he needs to take care of himself.
I’ll give you an example.
My husband’s a tall guy and he has back issues.
I remembered one time that he mentioned being uncomfortable in the car.
So, one Christmas I got him a cushion like tube thingy that he could just stick against the small of his back when he was driving.
And he was so happy with that very simple gift that TOTALLY changed his driving experience.
You can get a Christmas gift that is practical or utilitarian.
Something that’s really needed, but maybe your guy just hasn’t gotten around to it.
And I’ll give you an example.
My husband’s a musician and has many musical instruments.
He was concerned about it getting dusty or spilling something on his keyboard.
He was very happy with that keyboard cloth cover that I bought for him.
So, FOCUS ON HIM and get something that will make his life easier, more pleasant, more comfortable, more fun, more joyous, and more relaxing.
And you really can’t fall short of ideas if you just do a browser search like I mentioned before.
Remember to use the gifts for ______ search words.
Examples:
· gifts for back pain
· gifts for comfort
· gifts for headaches
#5 An Upgrade
This is a great option for a Christmas gift for your boyfriend, partner or husband.
He already owns this thing that he loves, but there’s a newer, shinier edition out there.
Get that for him and he’ll be blown away!
Examples
· a video game
· a bike
· a phone
· an appliance
There you have it.
BONUS CHRISTMAS GIFT TIP
Assuming you’re going to buy several gifts, purchase a gift in ALL of the categories I mentioned.
So that your partner gets the FULL RANGE of Christmas or Hanukkah, Winter Solstice or Kwanzaa holiday gifts. Just to name a few.